Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Mr. Jude Turns 3

Jude turned three last Friday. That means we've lived in this house for a little over three years. Amazing. Time flies when you're having fun (and when you're chronically sleep deprived).

Anyway, Grandpa Tom and Grandma Jane came down on Friday for Jude's birthday dinner. Then on Sunday, Jude's godparents, Floyd and Peggy, helped us celebrate a second time. Jude was pretty happy with that arrangement because one of his favorite things to do in the whole wide world is blow out birthday candles. Usually, it's someone else's birthday candles, though, which doesn't go over very well. This time he got the candles all to himself.The biggest birthday surprise of the weekend didn't actually come to Jude, but to his Momma and Daddy. For weeks before his birthday, we told Jude that once he turned three, he'd be a very big boy and he wouldn't need his beloved binki any more. Every day, multiple times per day, we repeated this fact to him.

So when the whole family was in the kitchen on Friday morning doing the traditional Macduff birthday dance to the Beatles' song, "Birthday," Grace grabbed the binki out of Jude's mouth. Well, that kinda put a damper on the festivities, at least for Jude. His whole countenance fell. He came to me and put his sad self into my lap and mourned the binki, but by the end of the song, he was up and dancing again.

I fully expected Friday night to be very long and extremely painful for this Momma (the memories of Lydia and her break from the binki still haunt me). I knew Daddy wouldn't give an inch on the binki and I figured Jude would be crying and begging to get it back. Guess what? Jude didn't even mention the "b" word and he slept through the night without any problems. He even slept through the next two nights after that without any problems and he's been doing fine at nap time, too.

Whoa, you can teach old parents new tricks. Who'd a thunk it?

Monday, August 29, 2011

Thoughts On Marriage

From Joel: "I'm gonna marry Mommy when I grow up." To which Lydia responded, "You can't do that, she's already married!"

From Lydia (upon discovering that one of our hens was really a rooster): "Oh good! We'll have to have a wedding."

"How come?" Daddy asked.

"Because. The rooster and the hen need to get married so that they can have baby chicks!"

Wednesday, August 24, 2011

A Dream Fulfilled

Joel had a life long dream--well, a quarter of a life long dream--fulfilled yesterday at the county fair. He mutton busted. Ever since Joel saw the mutton bustin' event at last year's rodeo, he was sure he wanted to participate this year.

So Matt called at 9 o'clock the morning of event sign ups to get Joel on the roster so he could ride a sheep one of the evenings of the rodeo. Apparently, the phones had opened at 8 a.m. and all forty of the available slots were filled by 8:15 a.m. However, the woman taking the calls told Matt that mutton bustin' would also be available in the "kid's zone" during the day at this year's fair.

So yesterday we headed to the opening day of the fair early so that we could be the first in line and get Joel signed up. Joel was all dudded out and prepared for a wild ride--right down to his lil' buckaroo chaps. It turned out that there were no early sign ups. Joel just needed to be at the mutton bustin' arena by high noon. Rides would be on a first come first served basis.

We wandered around the fair a bit and then got back to the arena at 11:52 a.m. They had already begun the festivities, so we scooted Joel into line behind the other little kids. The guy that runs the company, called Wool Busters, that puts on the event is really a kick. He did a great job of getting the crowd excited for the event. He announced each little rider's name and where they lived before they rode. And he asked the all important question, "Do you want help?" The man's grandsons were available to hold the sheep and keep them from running to make the ride a bit easier for those little guys (or their parents) who preferred a safer ride.

"Sweet Home Alabama" blared on the sound system as rider after rider took his or her turn. Each kid received a blue ribbon after riding--"we call that braggin' rights," the man would say.

Every kid who rode before Joel asked for help. When Joel got into the shoot, the man asked him, "Do you want help?" and Joel answered, "No."

So the man said, "Joel wants to ride unassisted. Is that o.k. with you, Dad?" Matt nodded "yes."

"Just a minute, I have a special song for those who ride unassisted," the man said. So he ran out of the arena and put on George Thorogood's, "Bad to the Bone." Then he returned to the gate and asked Joel one more time, "You sure you want to ride without help?" Joel answered in the affirmative.

"This sheep's name is Tornado. Joel will be riding Tornado unassisted today." Then he opened the gate. . . and Joel lasted about two seconds before he fell off.As the man handed Joel his blue ribbon, he said, "You earned that ribbon cowboy." Joel left the arena and watched from the sidelines as the other kids rode. Most wanted assistance, although a few rode without help. All of those kids were older than Joel and lasted a bit longer than he did.

Later, the man caught Joel's eye as he stood outside the arena and said, "You come back and ride with us again, cowboy." Joel smiled a big proud smile.

We asked Joel if he'd like to ride again. Right now, he's not so sure. He got sawdust in his eyes during his face plant landing and had to go to the first aid station to have his eyes rinsed. He is sure of one thing, though. He still wants to be a cowboy in Texas when he grows up.

Monday, August 22, 2011

Summer Vacation 2011, Part 2

Lydia had a hard time our last morning in the mountains and was in tears. To cheer her up, I told her that the house in which we would be staying at the beach had a view of the ocean. When we arrived in Lincoln City late that afternoon, we all tumbled out of the van and Matt let us into the beach house. We walked into the living room and Lydia ran to the window and exclaimed, "Oh Mommy! It's just like you said!"



Even I was amazed at the incredible view of the ocean waves crashing over the rocks and onto the beach. After a loonng day of traveling in the van, our emotions were pretty well summed up in this line from the journals of Lewis and Clark: "Oh joy! Ocean in view!"



I quickly made dinner while everyone else unpacked so that we could get down to the beach and get some sand beneath our toes. The last time we went to the ocean, Lydia was a baby, so she had no recollection of it (although she claims otherwise). So all the littles had a ball running up and down the beach and jumping over the waves that first night. Jude gave the waves a good karate chop or two, just cause he's so tough.

The next day, we just kinda kicked back on the beach. We made sand castles, flew kites and looked for shells. Lydia was tickled to find the "other half" of the mussel shell she picked up the night before. The kids also fit a few games of chess into the day's activities.

We packed a picnic lunch on Tuesday and took it to Regatta Park. The kids loved the amazing "sand castle" wooden play structure. Even Grace and Elizabeth liked it, so that's saying something. The view of Devil's Lake was outstanding. I have no idea why they call it "Devil's Lake." It's not a very nice name for such a beautiful lake. The weather was perfect and the park was not crowded, so it was easy for me to keep an eye on the kids while I sat with Isaac in the picnic table area. Daddy and the kids walked the nature trail that is part of the park after lunch. They got to see one of the largest Spruce trees on the west coast.My parents came to town on Tuesday. They stayed in the bed and breakfast next door to our house. My mom just had knee replacement surgery a few weeks ago and I had prepared the kids for the disappointing fact that Grandma and Grandpa would most likely not be able to join us on vacation as we had previously planned. Leave it to Grandma Jane, though, she came anyway. She pushed her way through the pain and had a great time with the kids for the rest of the week.



Wednesday, we all headed north to Newport to visit the Aquarium, courtesy of Grandma and Grandpa. We were able to maneuver my mom around the grounds in the wheel chair and Isaac in the stroller. Usually everyone fights over who gets to push the baby in the stroller. Not this time--everyone wanted the privilege of pushing Grandma. My mom's favorite creatures at the aquarium were the Japanese crabs. She especially enjoyed it when they fought over who was the biggest and baddest. Jude loved the sharks, or "harks" as he called them. My favorite part was when we were all loaded safely back into the van. While we were at the crowded aquarium, I spent the entire time frantically counting to seven.

After we returned to Lincoln City that afternoon, we were even able to get my mom on the beach so that she could watch the grandkids frolic in the sand and water. The Elks Lodge in town has a sand wheel chair that they allow people to borrow. Sweet! The wheelchair was a bear to load in and out of the car, but it worked great on the beach. My mom loves the ocean, so it was really a treat for her to be right on the beach and all the kids were so excited to have her there with them.

That night after dinner, we watched my mom's favorite movie, which is also my favorite movie and now has become a favorite of our kids--The Sound of Music. As we listened to "How Do You Solve a Problem Like Maria?," we looked out the living room window to see the setting sun just as it was about to sink into the ocean.

Matt's brother and his family were also vacationing in Lincoln City that same week. They were renting a house with my sister-in-law's side of the family on the opposite end of town. So Thursday afternoon, Jessica and I stole away together to explore a huge used book store. I will say that I exercised an enormous amount of restraint, especially since I was in the worst of company. My sister-in-law is a fellow book lover and she was in all her glory at that store, sitting in the middle of one of the aisles with books stacked all around her. So even though the deck was stacked against me, I only purchased three books. One was a vintage Golden Book, which are my favorite bed time reads. The other two were a McGuffey Reader and a vintage Landmark history book. I drooled over many, many more books, but my pocket book just couldn't take the prices at that place. I'm too used to yard sale prices, I guess.



Low tide was at 7 a.m. on Friday morning, so before we left to go home, we took one last stroll on the beach. We got to see star fish and sea anemones, jump a few more waves and collect a few more treasures to take home. I was amazed at the variety of rocks and shells that were on the beach. I thoroughly enjoyed looking for just one more unusual agate or shell. It was as though God created one huge "I Spy" game for my personal pleasure.

As I walked through the sand to head back to the house to pack up, I couldn't help but think of God's promise to Abraham. The God Abraham served is the same God I serve. He is more powerful than the mighty and vast ocean. Yet, He still seeks a personal relationship with me, and calls me His child through the blood of His son, Jesus. Amazing!












Tuesday, August 16, 2011

Summer Vacation 2011, Part 1

We were blessed to have another great vacation this year. At one point, we weren't sure we'd be able to manage a vacation, as Matt's job was in danger of being cut. We had our eyes on a rental house on the Oregon Coast, but held off on putting money down on it until we were sure Matt was going to keep his job--and he did, so we did!

We started the trip with Matt's side of the family in South Central Oregon. This part of the trip was planned about a year and a half ago, for the purpose of spreading Grandma Ethel's ashes on Macduff Peak, which was her wish. Macduff Peak was named after Matt's great great grandfather, Nelson, who was a forest ranger in those parts.
Most of the adults and all of the older children hiked up the mountain on Saturday morning. Matt and his brother Trevor drove the two big vans as far up the mountain as possible and then everyone disembarked to hike to the summit. Grandma Dianne, my sister-in-law, Jessica and I stayed back at home base (Belknap Hot Springs Resort) with eight littles. When the hiking crew reached the summit, they held a small worship service. Our niece, Maggie, picked wildflowers all the way up the mountain and placed them on the plaque at the top.Later, Grace told me that the logging road up the mountain was not very driveable, as it was washed out in one place. The road was also very narrow and very steep. Turning the vans around to go back down the mountain was especially nerve wracking, she said. Needless to say, taking care of eight littles (including a screaming Joel who was absolutely heart broken that he wasn't big enough to go on the hike) seemed much more favorable to me than going up that mountain. I'm sure Matt was glad I didn't go, too. My tendency to let out squeals and winces while he drives normal roads is annoying enough. (Not that he is a bad driver, I'm just a bit of a ninnie, especially when he's maneuvering the big van in and out of parking spaces.)

We spent the afternoon after the hike at Clear Lake. There are no motorized watercraft allowed on the lake. Row boats are available for rent and Matt procured one for our enjoyment. I'm not sure how much he enjoyed rowing back and forth across the lake, but his many passengers did. Lydia and her cousin Mackenzie and second cousin Elaine entertained themselves while Matt was rowing by making beautiful works of art out of the pine cones and flowers they found. Joel did get to go on a "hike" with his Daddy, after all. They found a little trail that ran around the lake to explore together.We celebrated a successful hike and two August birthdays that night at an excellent pizzeria, despite the fact that the original restaurant that had been reserved for the occasion was without electricity and was unable to take our party. It was nice to see Matt's cousin and his family as well as some long time Macduff family friends, Bobbie and Don. (An interesting aside--a few months ago when Matt was on a business trip in San Antonio,Texas, he visited the Alamo. Bobbie and Don happened to be there at the same time. Bobbie was sure that Matt was the same Matt Macduff she's known for so many years, but she figured he couldn't possibly be in Texas, so she didn't say "hi." Later, she read this blog and found out that she had indeed seen Matt in Texas.)

On the way back to the resort after dinner, we took a small detour through this covered bridge and stopped so that Grace could take pictures. As you can see, it was gorgeous--a beautiful ending to a special day.
Grandma Dianne had t-shirts made for everyone. Grace and Elizabeth thought of the design and the Bible verse--Prov. 3:6. On Sunday morning the whole Macduff clan gathered outside for worship time, surrounded by the Lord's majestic mountain scenery. It reminded me of our study in Isaiah this past year and all the times the Lord called on the mountains and the trees to worship him.
For you shall go out in joy and be led forth in peace; the mountains and the hills before you shall break forth into singing,and all the trees of the field shall clap their hands. Isaiah 55:12
After worship, we loaded up the van to leave the mountains and head to the beach!


Thursday, August 4, 2011

Quick Draw

The other day I caught Joel practicing his gun draw in front of the full length mirror in the master bathroom. It takes practice to pull one's toy gun from the plastic holster, cock it and aim to fire in a little over a second. Practice, practice, practice. And that's just what Joel did. When he was sure he was proficient enough, he came to show me his "best quick draw." I deemed it the "fastest draw this side of the Mississippi" and Joel smiled a big proud smile.

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

F-15

Grace snapped these photos of an F-15 as it flew over our house this past weekend.